Monday, October 16, 2017

Dalla spiaggia

"From the beach"
Because this email is coming @ ya live from the beach in Sardinia, Italy! Yes, it's excatly what you are picturing in your head right now: crystal clear water, no one in sight. Me and Sorella DeMann laying in the sand typing up emails :) Wow- can't complain at all. It was like a 20 minute bus ride, and when we got off, the silence was literally deafening. I could feel my ears ringing because it is so quiet out here! Just the sound of crashing waves....... Because even in our apartment, the sounds of the city are unavoidably loud. So today is a beautiful day of R&R :) Sun, sand, Sardinia. 
But really, we've been blessed by mother nature because the temperature has been in the 70s the whole time I've been here. I hope winter never comes because I could get used to pdays like this!


OH and Chase made it to Korea!! Whoop whoop! I loved getting his email and seeing pictures of him so happy :) Not many people can say they served at the same time as their brother!!!!!!!! My heart is so full, this work is good.

This week we faced tons of rejection: Sabrina never called us back or responded to our texts, we got more than 1 bidone (appointment cancel) from less actives, members, everyone, and our english course did not increase in size (yet?). 

All of that aside, we did see miracles and had a great week I'm excited to share everything with y'all.  

We did a little bit of casa in casa and knocked into a man that comes to the Caritas (the place where we do service on Saturdays). His name is Toni and he was so sweet to us. We couldn't go in but we shared a video with him and he loved it. It was super humbling to see his apartment. You could see everything from the front door but he kept it so clean and neat. When he came into the cafeteria on Saturday I couldn't help but smile :) 

We also knocked into an 18 year old boy who stepped out of his house to watch "Grazie a Lui". He told us he was atheist but we talked for a while and definitely saw the wheels start turning. It was a beautiful thing to see and to leave him pondering!

We spent a day inside our house this week, waiting for my permesso renewal packet to be delivered. We made a ton of phone calls and even stood on the street outside out apartment building holding our english course sign! People would roll down their windows and stop just long enough for us to give them a card. There was one lady who pulled over, parked her car, and came running down the street towards us! I love it.

Fish egg pasta
At english course we always do a warm-up question, just to get people talking. Tuesday we decided to ask "What is your favorite thing to cook?" Giorgio, without hesitation: "My dog." Hahahah oh wow I about lost it on that one! Too funny. He was kidding of course... There was a theme in the responses: fish. Almost everyone said some kind of pasta with fish, or octopus or squid. Pietro told us his was pasta with fish eggs and then he proceeded to invite us over for lunch the next day to try it! It was surpisingly good and the fish eggs turned out to be really small, it was almost like a seasoning! I still like tomato sauce better hehe. Pietro has been coming to english course for about a year now, we had a good lesson with him and the Anziani during that pranzo appointment. We are working so hard to lead him to the water and praying he will have the desire to drink it! He's making slow progress :) 
2 of the Sorelle from Cagliari came up this week for a scambio! I was with Sorella Groll, the STL. She is so awesome and we had a great lesson with Gift! She remembered everything we taught her about the Restoration so we talked about the Plan of Salvation! I think she understood most of it but the Resurrection was quite a struggle. We will be reviewing for sure. Haha but she is so cute and definitely has the light of Christ! She came to church yesterday and we are so looking forward to meeting again this week!

Another really cool thing happened during the scambio. Sorella DeMann was with Sorella Greer. Well Sorella Greer's dad served in Sassari and had someone he wanted her to track down (not a member)! So they did just that but she wasn't home, so they left a card with our phone number. The lady called us! She wants to meet Sorella Greer because she loved her dad so much. We already have plans for next scambio!!!!!!! Assuming Sorella Greer doesn't get transferred..... but still. It was way cool. 

We decided to take our gesso to the next level this week and do it on an actual chalkboard instead of a sheet! Sorella DeMann is very artistic and she killed it. We asked the question "What is the restoration?" And stopped people asking if they've heard of it! Not going to lie, I was struggling a little that night, it's hard to stop people by yourself (Slla DeMann draws) especially because I don't feel comfortable enough in the language to do so. But the mission pushes you out of your comfort zones! After like the eighth rejection of the night, a lady stopped me (plot twist!!!!) asking what was the restoration! She and her husband talked to me for about 15 minutes just about the restoration, why we are here as missionaries, english course, everything. It was definitely a tender mercy for me, those 2 people. When I told them this message brought me so much happiness, she said, "We know, we can see it!". 

We also met a man who is a professor here in Sassari, speaks english flawlessly. With a british accent. He could've told us he was from England and I don't think a single one of us would have doubted him for a second. Anyway, we exchanged phone numbers with him, he does private english lessons and wants his students to talk with people who are native english speakers! More to come on that hopefully!!

On Saturday night there was a "manifestation" in centro. I'm still not 100% sure what exactly that means but I know that it entails lots of people dressed colonially beating on drums and waving/throwing around huge flags. it was an awesome cultural experience and we bumped into Stefania while we were there!

After, we had dinner with the Marras family. They are probably the most en gamba family in the ward! Joy, Jeffery, and Aniyu were there too. We had pasta carbonara (my favorite). And we talked about the importance of the Book of Mormon. I got to bear testimony of its truthfulness! I know that as we choose to read from this book every day we will be able to make better decisions every day :) 

Sister Marras told us about a big event that was going on (no idea what the event was or where it was) but she told us we could catch the shuttle in centro and it would take us straight there! So, always down for the adventure, we went. Last night we found it. It turned out to be a HUGE expo type thing with lots of booths and a wedding dress fashion show and free gelato! SO. We positioned ourselves right at the entrance with our sign "Trova la felicita" and went at it. We probably handed out 400 Jesus cards to every person walking in! And then when we ran out of Gesù cards, we flipped our sign over and handed out 400 english course cards. We met a guy who I guess was someone of importance at the expo, he was really interested in english group because he spends over 750 euro a month for his daughter's english lessons (with a native english speaker) hahaha wow. I know what I want my job to be after the mission. I'm moving to Italy to teach english lessons! But seriously. And then he invited us to the after party! to "eat and drink" hahahah man we were so down but the bus would've gotten us back too late. So the only rejection of the night was us declining the afterparty invite. I'd call it a very successful sera. Thanks for the idea, Sister Marras!

Yesterday our relief society lesson was from the Gordon B. Hinckley book and we talked about chapter 20. I loved every part of that chapter but one part really stood out to me: "Let us be true disciples of the Christ, observing the Golden Rule, doing unto others as we would have them do unto us. Let us strengthen our own faith and that of our children while being gracious to those who are not of our faith. Love and respect will overcome every element of animosity. Our kindness may be the most persuasive argument for that which we believe". I know that our actions and our kindness demonstrate our testimony, the things in which we believe. I am thankful to be here in Sassari, inviting other to come unto Christ. I challenge all of y'all this week to remember the golden rule. To share the gospel, not by saying anything, but through your actions. I am so grateful for the opportunity to serve and be the Lord's hands for this short time. Life is good! Forza Italia! 

Transfer calls are tonight. I'm staying. (Probs)
Until next week!
Love you all! xoxoxoxo
Sorella Carley Neuberger
with Stefania at the manifestation

Rome temple is coming along







Playing piano at Marras family